[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":909},["ShallowReactive",2],{"article-/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father":3,"related-/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father":149,"article-women-/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father":908},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"category":132,"date":133,"description":134,"extension":135,"featured":136,"image":137,"imageCredit":138,"meta":139,"navigation":140,"path":141,"reflectionPrompt":142,"seo":143,"seoDescription":144,"seoTitle":145,"slug":146,"stem":147,"updated":142,"women":142,"__hash__":148},"articles/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father.md","A Conversation With My Father",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":123},"minimark",[9,13,16,19,24,27,46,49,52,56,59,62,65,69,72,75,81,85,88,91,94,97,101,120],[10,11,12],"p",{},"Not long ago, I had a conversation with my father about this website. It didn't go the way I expected, but it taught me more about why this work matters than almost anything else has.",[10,14,15],{},"His first concern was that I don't belong to any organisation. In his view, if you want to push for change, you do it through a recognised group. Through seminars, institutions, something with structure. You don't do it from your bedroom. And I understand that perspective. For his generation, change was organised. It came from unions, from political parties, from formal movements.",[10,17,18],{},"But the internet has changed who gets to participate in education. An individual with a website can reach more people than a seminar room ever could. That doesn't make institutions irrelevant, but it does mean the barrier to sharing knowledge is no longer membership in a group. It's having something worth saying and the willingness to say it.",[20,21,23],"h2",{"id":22},"those-women-didnt-fight-for-feminism","\"Those women didn't fight for feminism\"",[10,25,26],{},"This was the line that stayed with me. My father said the women I write about didn't fight for feminism. They fought for their rights. He wanted me to get that distinction right.",[10,28,29,30,35,36,40,41,45],{},"And he's not wrong. Women like ",[31,32,34],"a",{"href":33},"/women/dora-akunyili","Dora Akunyili"," did not march under a banner that said \"feminism.\" She fought against counterfeit drugs that were killing Nigerians. ",[31,37,39],{"href":38},"/women/funmilayo-ransome-kuti","Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti"," fought against unjust taxation and for women's political representation. ",[31,42,44],{"href":43},"/women/gambo-sawaba","Gambo Sawaba"," fought for girls' education in northern Nigeria. None of them were trying to fit a label. They saw something wrong and they fought to change it.",[10,47,48],{},"But that is what feminism is. At its core, feminism is the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men. It is the fight for social, political, and economic equality. Most of the women this website documents were doing exactly that, whether they used the word or not.",[10,50,51],{},"The problem isn't what feminism means. The problem is what people think it means.",[20,53,55],{"id":54},"when-the-word-gets-in-the-way","When the word gets in the way",[10,57,58],{},"My father heard \"feminism\" and immediately put up a wall. The conversation stopped being about history and became about a word. He wanted me to know that the women I write about understood that \"man is head of the family.\" That they weren't trying to upend some natural order.",[10,60,61],{},"This is a reaction I've seen many times, not just from my father. The word \"feminism\" has taken on so much cultural baggage that for many people, especially in African contexts, it triggers a defensive response before any real conversation can happen. People hear the word and assume you are anti-men, anti-family, anti-tradition. They stop listening to what you are actually saying.",[10,63,64],{},"That's part of why the conversation matters so much. If we can't even discuss the history of women who fought for rights that we all benefit from today, simply because a word makes people uncomfortable, then we have a bigger problem than terminology. We have a knowledge gap.",[20,66,68],{"id":67},"the-irony-of-benefiting-from-what-you-dismiss","The irony of benefiting from what you dismiss",[10,70,71],{},"One thing I pointed out to my father is that he has three daughters who are working, who went to school, who are doing well. His wife has had opportunities that wouldn't have existed without the efforts of women who came before her. These aren't abstract gains. They are the direct result of women who fought, and often suffered, so that future generations could have more.",[10,73,74],{},"When someone dismisses the history of women's rights movements while simultaneously benefiting from their outcomes, there's a disconnect. It doesn't come from bad intentions. It comes from not knowing the history. And that's exactly the gap this website exists to fill.",[10,76,77,78,80],{},"You don't have to call yourself a feminist to recognise that ",[31,79,34],{"href":33}," saved lives. You don't need a label to understand that women who fought for the right to vote, to own property, to go to school, made the world you live in possible. The label is secondary. The history is what matters.",[20,82,84],{"id":83},"why-i-built-this-anyway","Why I built this anyway",[10,86,87],{},"After that conversation, I didn't stop. If anything, it reinforced why the website needs to exist.",[10,89,90],{},"The resistance I got from my own father, a man who loves his daughters and is proud of what they've achieved, tells me how deep the misunderstanding goes. If someone who directly benefits from women's progress still bristles at the idea of documenting that progress, then there are millions of others who feel the same way. And they feel that way not because they are bad people, but because no one ever sat them down and told them the full story.",[10,92,93],{},"That's what this is. Not an argument. Not a movement. Not a label. It's a record. It's a website that says: these women existed, they did extraordinary things, and you should know about them.",[10,95,96],{},"Whether you call that feminism, women's rights, social justice, or just history, it doesn't change what happened. And it doesn't change why it matters.",[20,98,100],{"id":99},"what-to-take-away","What to take away",[102,103,104,108,111,114,117],"ul",{},[105,106,107],"li",{},"You don't need to belong to an organisation to educate. The internet is a legitimate space for knowledge sharing.",[105,109,110],{},"Many African women who fought for rights never used the word \"feminism,\" but their work is the foundation of the freedoms women have today.",[105,112,113],{},"The word \"feminism\" often gets in the way of the conversation it's supposed to start. The history underneath the word is what deserves attention.",[105,115,116],{},"People who resist the idea of women's rights often benefit from those very rights without realising it.",[105,118,119],{},"Documenting history is not about labelling people. It's about making sure their contributions are not forgotten.",[10,121,122],{},"I love my father. I understand where he's coming from. But I also know that the women on this website deserve to have their stories told, and that telling those stories is not an act of rebellion. It's an act of respect.",{"title":124,"searchDepth":125,"depth":125,"links":126},"",2,[127,128,129,130,131],{"id":22,"depth":125,"text":23},{"id":54,"depth":125,"text":55},{"id":67,"depth":125,"text":68},{"id":83,"depth":125,"text":84},{"id":99,"depth":125,"text":100},"Why It Matters","2026-03-09","What happens when you tell your father you built a website about African women's history, and why the word 'feminism' keeps getting in the way of the actual conversation.","md",false,"/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father.gif","Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti and PM Balewa, early 1960s / Public Domain",{},true,"/articles/a-conversation-with-my-father",null,{"title":5,"description":134},"A daughter tells her father she built an archive of African women's history. What follows shows why the word feminism blocks the conversation that matters.","A Conversation With My Father About Feminism","a-conversation-with-my-father","articles/a-conversation-with-my-father","p_Jmy8mVzbT1qhMblV6Vaph8MAXXrA7zGHaBY_xsGMc",[150,433,612],{"id":151,"title":152,"body":153,"category":132,"date":420,"description":421,"extension":135,"featured":136,"image":422,"imageCredit":423,"meta":424,"navigation":140,"path":425,"reflectionPrompt":426,"seo":427,"seoDescription":428,"seoTitle":429,"slug":430,"stem":431,"updated":142,"women":142,"__hash__":432},"articles/articles/ten-years-in-prison-for-a-pill.md","Ten Years in Prison for the Pill That Keeps Nigerian Mothers Alive",{"type":7,"value":154,"toc":412},[155,158,161,169,172,176,186,192,195,198,201,205,208,211,220,258,261,264,267,271,274,277,280,291,294,297,300,304,307,310,313,326,329,333,336,339,350,353,355,406,409],[10,156,157],{},"Most Nigerians have never heard the word misoprostol. A lot of them have been saved by it anyway. A sister, a mother, an aunty who delivered a baby and would not stop bleeding, who is alive today because someone, somewhere, had the right small white tablet in a drawer.",[10,159,160],{},"That tablet has another name on the street. People call it miso.",[10,162,163,164,168],{},"It is also, in the eyes of a bill currently sitting in the Nigerian Senate, an instrument of crime. If that bill passes in its proposed form, supplying miso to a person, knowing it could be used to \"procure a miscarriage,\" will carry ",[165,166,167],"strong",{},"ten years in prison, without the option of a fine."," Up from three.",[10,170,171],{},"What the senators arguing about it have mostly not said, and what almost nobody outside the medical community is saying, is that miso is not just an abortion pill. It is one of the most important drugs in the country for keeping pregnant women alive. The same chemistry. The same shelf. The same midwife reaching into the same drawer. The law does not know the difference, and that is the problem.",[20,173,175],{"id":174},"what-the-bill-actually-says","What the bill actually says",[10,177,178,179,185],{},"The proposed Criminal Code Amendment Bill 2025, introduced by Senate Leader Opeyemi Bamidele, seeks to amend ",[31,180,184],{"href":181,"rel":182},"https://jurist.ng/criminal_code_act/sec-230",[183],"nofollow","Section 230 of Nigeria's Criminal Code",". The current text reads:",[187,188,189],"blockquote",{},[10,190,191],{},"Any person who unlawfully supplies to or procures for any person any thing whatever, knowing that it is intended to be unlawfully used to procure the miscarriage of a woman, whether she is or is not with child is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for three years.",[10,193,194],{},"Three years. The bill wants to make it ten. With no option of paying a fine instead.",[10,196,197],{},"On 26 October 2025, after a heated debate, Senate President Godswill Akpabio stepped the clause down and sent it back to committee. Some senators were uneasy. The word \"unlawfully\" was doing a lot of work in that sentence, and nobody could agree on what it meant. Senator Abdul Ningi warned that the amendment could \"discourage medical practitioners from providing life-saving care.\" Senator Saliu Mustapha pointed out that some abortions are medically necessary. Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan tried to speak. She was blocked.",[10,199,200],{},"The bill is paused. It is not dead. The committee has been asked to report back in two weeks. When it does, the same vote returns to the floor.",[20,202,204],{"id":203},"the-drug-at-the-centre-of-it","The drug at the centre of it",[10,206,207],{},"The thing the bill calls \"any thing whatever\" is, in practice, almost always one drug: misoprostol.",[10,209,210],{},"Misoprostol was not invented for abortion. It was developed in the 1970s as an ulcer medication. Doctors noticed something unexpected in pregnant patients who took it: the drug made the uterus contract. That side effect, once a problem, turned out to be one of the most useful properties any medicine has ever had.",[10,212,213,214,219],{},"Today, misoprostol is on the ",[31,215,218],{"href":216,"rel":217},"https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/9789240013902",[183],"WHO Model List of Essential Medicines",". It is used to:",[102,221,222,228,234,240,246,252],{},[105,223,224,227],{},[165,225,226],{},"Stop postpartum hemorrhage",", when a woman bleeds heavily after childbirth.",[105,229,230,233],{},[165,231,232],{},"Treat retained placenta",", when the placenta does not come out and the woman cannot stop bleeding.",[105,235,236,239],{},[165,237,238],{},"Induce labour",", when a delivery has stalled and mother or baby is in danger.",[105,241,242,245],{},[165,243,244],{},"Manage incomplete miscarriage"," by emptying the uterus when a pregnancy has ended on its own.",[105,247,248,251],{},[165,249,250],{},"Treat stomach ulcers",", its original use, and still common.",[105,253,254,257],{},[165,255,256],{},"End early pregnancy",", the use most people associate it with.",[10,259,260],{},"It is the same pill. The same chemistry. What changes is the dose, the timing, and the reason. The pharmacy does not stock six different versions. There is one drug. It does six different things.",[10,262,263],{},"Nigeria's National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control (NAFDAC) approved misoprostol for postpartum hemorrhage in 2006 and added it to the national essential drugs list the same year. In 2011, Nigeria adopted national guidelines for using it at the community level. That means in villages, by midwives, by community health workers, in places where a doctor is a luxury and an ambulance is a fantasy.",[10,265,266],{},"A law that punishes anyone who \"supplies\" misoprostol, knowing it could be used to \"procure a miscarriage,\" does not know how to tell apart a pharmacist filling a prescription for a postpartum mother and a pharmacist filling one for an unwanted pregnancy. The law does not care. The pill is the pill.",[20,268,270],{"id":269},"why-the-alternative-does-not-work","Why the alternative does not work",[10,272,273],{},"Defenders of the bill will say what defenders of restrictive abortion laws always say: there is another drug. Use that one instead. The other drug is oxytocin.",[10,275,276],{},"Oxytocin works. It works very well. It is the gold standard for preventing and treating postpartum hemorrhage in any country with a functioning healthcare system. The problem is that oxytocin must be kept cold. It is a peptide hormone, and it breaks down at room temperature. The WHO recommends it be stored between 2°C and 8°C, which is to say, refrigerator temperature.",[10,278,279],{},"Now consider Nigeria.",[10,281,282,283,286,287,290],{},"Roughly ",[165,284,285],{},"40% of primary health centres in Nigeria do not have access to electricity",". A national audit found that ",[165,288,289],{},"74% of oxytocin samples in the country failed potency tests",". That means even where the vials existed, three out of four had degraded into salt water by the time a midwife reached for them. Behind those numbers are real women who got injected with something that looked like medicine and was not.",[10,292,293],{},"This is not a rural problem only. Lagos blacks out. Abuja blacks out. Generators run out of fuel. Solar batteries fail in the harmattan dust. The cold chain assumes a reliability that Nigeria's grid simply does not provide.",[10,295,296],{},"Misoprostol does not need a fridge. It does not need a generator. It does not need a stable grid. It sits on a shelf in Sokoto, Yobe, Bayelsa, anywhere, at whatever temperature the day decides on, and it still works two years later. That is why the WHO lists it as essential for low-resource settings. That is why NAFDAC approved it for community use in 2006. In a country where the lights go off, it is, very often, the only uterotonic that is actually a uterotonic by the time anyone needs it.",[10,298,299],{},"The Senate is debating a ten-year sentence for supplying it.",[20,301,303],{"id":302},"who-actually-pays","Who actually pays",[10,305,306],{},"Senators' daughters will be fine. So will the wives of the men voting on this. So will any woman with the phone number of a private doctor in Lekki or Maitama, or the means to fly to Accra for a weekend. Restrictive abortion laws have never stopped wealthy women from ending pregnancies; they have only ever made the procedure quieter and more expensive.",[10,308,309],{},"The women who pay are the women who pay for everything else.",[10,311,312],{},"The teenager in a village whose periods stop after a wedding she did not consent to. The mother of four whose husband refuses contraception and whose body cannot survive a fifth pregnancy. The university student raped on her way home from a tutorial. The woman whose pregnancy is killing her and whose doctor now has to choose between her life and his liberty.",[10,314,315,316,321,322,325],{},"Nigeria already accounts for ",[31,317,320],{"href":318,"rel":319},"https://articles.nigeriahealthwatch.com/scaling-heat-stable-uterotonics-to-prevent-maternal-deaths-in-nigeria/",[183],"about 28.5% of global maternal deaths",". Postpartum hemorrhage causes 22% of those deaths. Unsafe abortion causes another estimated 15%. Roughly ",[165,323,324],{},"6,000 Nigerian women die every year from preventable abortion complications alone",". That is about ten women a day. These are not figures from a hostile activist. They come from the country's own public health literature.",[10,327,328],{},"A law that raises the penalty on the drug that prevents both kinds of death is not a law that protects women. It is a law that buries them faster.",[20,330,332],{"id":331},"the-question-nobody-in-the-chamber-asked","The question nobody in the chamber asked",[10,334,335],{},"Section 230 has a sister provision in the same Criminal Code: Section 297. Section 297 already allows a doctor acting \"in good faith and with reasonable care and skill\" to perform a surgical operation, including one that ends a pregnancy, when it is necessary to save the mother's life. The legal mechanism for medically necessary abortion already exists. What the bill adds is not protection. It is fear.",[10,337,338],{},"Fear that a midwife in Kebbi will not reach for the pill she has, because the pharmacy that gave it to her could now go to prison. Fear that a doctor in Enugu will let a septic miscarriage become a sepsis death rather than complete the evacuation. Fear that a woman bleeding on a clinic floor will be referred elsewhere, and elsewhere is two hours away, and she does not have two hours.",[10,340,341,342,344,345,349],{},"There is also a question the bill takes for granted and never bothers to name: whose body is this, and who is allowed to decide what happens inside it. ",[31,343,39],{"href":38}," put a version of that question to the colonial administration in the 1940s. ",[31,346,348],{"href":347},"/women/margaret-ekpo","Margaret Ekpo"," put it to the Nigerian state in the 1950s. Eighty years later it is still being answered, in this case, by men in a chamber where the only female senator who tried to speak on the bill was procedurally silenced.",[10,351,352],{},"A government that cannot keep the lights on in its own hospitals, that cannot guarantee a midwife in every village, that cannot prevent the rape it then forces women to carry to term, does not have the moral standing to put a doctor in prison for ten years for handing a woman a tablet that keeps her alive.",[20,354,100],{"id":99},[102,356,357,364,371,386,393,399],{},[105,358,359,360,363],{},"The bill currently before the Nigerian Senate would raise the penalty under Section 230 of the Criminal Code from ",[165,361,362],{},"three years to ten years"," for supplying drugs used to procure abortion, with no option of a fine.",[105,365,366,367,370],{},"The drug almost always meant by that clause is ",[165,368,369],{},"misoprostol",", the same drug used to stop postpartum bleeding, deliver retained placentas, induce labour, manage miscarriage, and treat stomach ulcers.",[105,372,373,374,377,378,381,382,385],{},"Nigeria's first-line alternative, ",[165,375,376],{},"oxytocin",", requires refrigeration that ",[165,379,380],{},"40% of Nigerian primary health centres cannot provide",", and ",[165,383,384],{},"74% of oxytocin samples"," in a national audit failed potency tests.",[105,387,388,389,392],{},"Nigeria already accounts for roughly ",[165,390,391],{},"28.5% of all maternal deaths in the world",". Punishing access to misoprostol will not lower that number. It will raise it.",[105,394,395,398],{},[165,396,397],{},"Section 297 of the same Criminal Code already permits"," doctors to act in good faith to save a mother's life. The new amendment does not add protection. It adds fear.",[105,400,401,402,405],{},"Restrictive abortion laws have never reduced abortion. They have only ever reduced ",[165,403,404],{},"safe"," abortion, and with it, the lives of women who cannot afford to pay their way around the law.",[10,407,408],{},"If you are reading this and you did not know any of it before, that is the point. Most people do not. The bill is being debated in language designed to keep them from knowing. \"Unlawfully procuring.\" \"Supplying any thing whatever.\" Language that sounds like a warning to criminals and reads, in practice, like a warning to anyone who has ever tried to keep a Nigerian woman alive.",[10,410,411],{},"Knowing what is actually in Section 230, and what is actually in the pill it would punish you for selling, is the smallest possible act of refusing to let it happen quietly.",{"title":124,"searchDepth":125,"depth":125,"links":413},[414,415,416,417,418,419],{"id":174,"depth":125,"text":175},{"id":203,"depth":125,"text":204},{"id":269,"depth":125,"text":270},{"id":302,"depth":125,"text":303},{"id":331,"depth":125,"text":332},{"id":99,"depth":125,"text":100},"2026-05-11","Nigeria's Senate is debating raising the punishment for supplying abortion drugs from 3 to 10 years. The pill at the centre of that law is the same one keeping women in villages from bleeding to death after childbirth.","/articles/ten-years-in-prison-for-a-pill.jpg","Aisha Moh'd Kazaure, midwife in Jigawa State, northern Nigeria / Lindsay Mgbor / UK Department for International Development, 2011 / CC BY 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons",{},"/articles/ten-years-in-prison-for-a-pill","If a law would punish a midwife for using the only drug she had to keep a woman alive, who exactly is that law protecting?",{"title":152,"description":421},"Nigeria's Senate wants ten-year sentences for supplying abortion drugs. That pill, misoprostol, also stops mothers bleeding to death after birth.","Nigeria's Misoprostol Bill and Maternal Deaths","ten-years-in-prison-for-a-pill","articles/ten-years-in-prison-for-a-pill","qaJQV3BAtZHRJFTQYRcyGeQl5vpmSlrCshP4OKnbcAU",{"id":434,"title":435,"body":436,"category":132,"date":599,"description":600,"extension":135,"featured":136,"image":601,"imageCredit":602,"meta":603,"navigation":140,"path":604,"reflectionPrompt":605,"seo":606,"seoDescription":607,"seoTitle":608,"slug":609,"stem":610,"updated":142,"women":142,"__hash__":611},"articles/articles/6400-miles-past-the-moon-and-still-not-far-enough.md","6,400 Miles Past the Moon and Still Not Far Enough",{"type":7,"value":437,"toc":592},[438,441,444,447,453,457,460,463,466,469,472,475,478,481,484,487,490,493,497,500,503,506,509,512,515,519,522,525,551,554,558,561,564,567,570,572,589],[10,439,440],{},"On April 1st, 2026, Christina Koch climbed into the Orion spacecraft alongside commander Reid Wiseman, pilot Victor Glover, and mission specialist Jeremy Hansen. Five days later, she flew 6,400 miles beyond the far side of the Moon. She became the first woman to travel beyond low Earth orbit. The farthest any woman has ever been from the planet she was born on.",[10,442,443],{},"She already held the record for the longest single spaceflight by a woman. 328 consecutive days aboard the International Space Station. She conducted the first all-female spacewalk. She holds degrees in electrical engineering and physics. She was selected as a NASA astronaut from a pool of over 6,100 applicants. She performed six spacewalks totalling over 42 hours. She spent a winter stationed at the South Pole doing research in some of the harshest conditions on Earth.",[10,445,446],{},"On April 10th, she returned safely. History had been made. And across the internet, thousands of people responded with the same handful of ideas.",[10,448,449],{},[450,451,452],"em",{},"Who would make the sandwiches?",[20,454,456],{"id":455},"what-the-comments-said","What the comments said",[10,458,459],{},"These are real comments from TikTok, under posts celebrating Christina Koch's mission. They are not cherry-picked outliers. They are top comments, many with hundreds or thousands of likes.",[10,461,462],{},"\"Her husband still waiting for his sandwich.\"",[10,464,465],{},"\"Also the farthest from a kitchen.\"",[10,467,468],{},"\"Instead of pre packed food, now they can finally have fresh made sandwiches.\"",[10,470,471],{},"\"Why the woman?\"",[10,473,474],{},"\"Hopefully the woman not in control.\" Over a thousand likes.",[10,476,477],{},"\"Women so they don't get bored in space?\"",[10,479,480],{},"\"Imagine your wife going around the Moon with 3 dudes. Poor fella.\" Nearly eight thousand likes.",[10,482,483],{},"\"Woman is going to be the first one to complain in space.\"",[10,485,486],{},"\"Must we praise everything a woman does?\"",[10,488,489],{},"\"Her man is the real mvp for staying at home with the kids while she has fun in the stars.\"",[10,491,492],{},"A woman travels around the Moon after years of training, after a career spent at the frontier of human capability, and the response is that the real hero is the man who stayed home.",[20,494,496],{"id":495},"what-this-actually-reveals","What this actually reveals",[10,498,499],{},"The comments are not really about Christina Koch. They are about what her achievement triggers in people who have built their understanding of the world on the idea that women are less. Less capable. Less serious. Less worthy of the big moments.",[10,501,502],{},"When a woman does something that makes that belief impossible to maintain, the reflex is not to update the belief. The reflex is to diminish the woman. Drag her back to the kitchen. Sexualise her. Reduce her to somebody's wife. Question why she is there at all.",[10,504,505],{},"\"Why the woman?\" is perhaps the most revealing comment. Not \"why this particular astronaut\" or \"is she qualified\" but \"why the woman?\" As if three men on a Moon mission is natural and one woman makes it suspicious.",[10,507,508],{},"There is always a follow-up response to this kind of criticism. \"It's just jokes.\" \"Stop being so sensitive.\" But think about what the jokes are actually saying. They are saying that a woman's greatest possible achievement is still less important than her availability to make food for a man. They are saying that a woman in a professional setting with male colleagues is primarily a sexual object. They are saying that a woman who excels at the highest level of a field is still, fundamentally, in the wrong place.",[10,510,511],{},"These are not neutral jokes. They carry a message. And that message is received by every girl who reads them. Every girl watching the Artemis mission and thinking \"I want to do that one day\" will also see thousands of people saying that a woman doing exactly that is ridiculous, laughable, or wrong.",[10,513,514],{},"The jokes are not harmless. They are the atmosphere that girls grow up breathing.",[20,516,518],{"id":517},"the-pattern-is-old","The pattern is old",[10,520,521],{},"Christina Koch is not the first woman to do something extraordinary and be met with mockery.",[10,523,524],{},"When Valentina Tereshkova became the first woman in space in 1963, the press spent more time discussing her gender than her mission. It took 19 years before another woman flew in space.",[10,526,527,528,530,531,535,536,540,541,545,546,550],{},"When women across Africa have taken on leadership roles throughout history, the reaction has followed the same script. ",[31,529,39],{"href":38}," was called a troublemaker. ",[31,532,534],{"href":533},"/women/winnie-madikizela-mandela","Winnie Madikizela-Mandela"," was called dangerous. ",[31,537,539],{"href":538},"/women/chimamanda-ngozi-adichie","Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie"," was called angry. From ",[31,542,544],{"href":543},"/women/yaa-asantewaa","Yaa Asantewaa"," leading an army against the British to ",[31,547,549],{"href":548},"/women/ellen-johnson-sirleaf","Ellen Johnson Sirleaf"," becoming Africa's first elected female head of state, the pattern holds. Disbelief, mockery, then quiet acceptance only after the achievement becomes impossible to deny.",[10,552,553],{},"The words change with the era. The purpose stays the same. Make the woman the problem so you never have to deal with what she has accomplished.",[20,555,557],{"id":556},"what-we-should-actually-be-talking-about","What we should actually be talking about",[10,559,560],{},"Christina Koch's mission is a milestone for humanity. She is part of a crew paving the way for human beings to return to and eventually live beyond the Moon.",[10,562,563],{},"But her mission is also significant specifically because she is a woman. Not because women needed to prove they could do it. But because every barrier that falls creates space for the next person to walk through.",[10,565,566],{},"Somewhere right now, there is a girl watching clips of Christina Koch floating inside Orion, looking out at the Earth, and that girl is thinking: that could be me. That thought is worth more than every sandwich joke ever typed.",[10,568,569],{},"And somewhere right now, there is also a girl scrolling through those same comments and absorbing the message that even if she does the most extraordinary thing in the world, it will not be enough.",[20,571,100],{"id":99},[102,573,574,577,580,583,586],{},[105,575,576],{},"Christina Koch is one of the most accomplished astronauts in history, with multiple records and decades of proven competence.",[105,578,579],{},"The response to her Artemis II mission in online comment sections was overwhelmingly sexist, reducing her to domestic and sexual stereotypes.",[105,581,582],{},"These comments are not harmless jokes. They carry a message that every girl who reads them absorbs.",[105,584,585],{},"The fact that this reaction exists in 2026, to a woman orbiting the Moon, proves that the fight for equality is nowhere near over.",[105,587,588],{},"Every girl who sees Christina Koch and thinks \"that could be me\" is the reason representation matters. Every comment that tries to drag her back down is the reason the work continues.",[10,590,591],{},"Christina Koch went to the Moon. She went farther from this planet than any woman in human history. And thousands of people could not see past the fact that she is a woman. That is not her limitation. It is theirs.",{"title":124,"searchDepth":125,"depth":125,"links":593},[594,595,596,597,598],{"id":455,"depth":125,"text":456},{"id":495,"depth":125,"text":496},{"id":517,"depth":125,"text":518},{"id":556,"depth":125,"text":557},{"id":99,"depth":125,"text":100},"2026-04-13","Christina Koch just became the first woman to travel around the Moon. The comment sections proved exactly why that milestone still matters.","/articles/6400-miles-past-the-moon-and-still-not-far-enough.png","Christina Koch, NASA Artemis II Mission Specialist / NASA / Public Domain",{},"/articles/6400-miles-past-the-moon-and-still-not-far-enough","When you see a woman achieve something extraordinary, what is the first reaction you notice in yourself and in the people around you? What do you think shapes that reaction?",{"title":435,"description":600},"Christina Koch became the first woman to fly around the Moon on Artemis II. This piece reads the online reaction and asks why it still unsettles people.","Christina Koch and the Comments After Artemis II","6400-miles-past-the-moon-and-still-not-far-enough","articles/6400-miles-past-the-moon-and-still-not-far-enough","MjV2pKHlYdpJFr-8dGbc_aRHh2ySYY2CP9_8_3zRaio",{"id":613,"title":614,"body":615,"category":132,"date":896,"description":897,"extension":135,"featured":136,"image":898,"imageCredit":899,"meta":900,"navigation":140,"path":901,"reflectionPrompt":142,"seo":902,"seoDescription":903,"seoTitle":904,"slug":905,"stem":906,"updated":142,"women":142,"__hash__":907},"articles/articles/to-the-mothers-who-gave-us-everything.md","To the Mothers Who Gave Us Everything",{"type":7,"value":616,"toc":885},[617,620,623,626,630,633,640,643,646,652,655,659,664,667,670,676,680,687,690,693,696,699,702,716,719,723,730,737,740,747,750,753,757,762,765,768,771,774,777,781,784,795,806,809,813,820,823,826,829,833,836,839,842,845,848,851,854,857,859],[10,618,619],{},"There is a kind of strength that doesn't announce itself. It doesn't give speeches or lead marches, though sometimes it does that too. It wakes up early. It stretches what little there is to cover what's needed. It holds a child with one arm and holds a world together with the other.",[10,621,622],{},"Your mother knows this strength. So does mine.",[10,624,625],{},"This is not a history lesson. It is a thank-you letter. To the mothers on this website who carried more than anyone should have to carry and still had enough left to give. And to the mothers reading this right now, and the mothers who raised the people reading this right now. The ones whose names will never be in any archive but whose work holds up everything.",[20,627,629],{"id":628},"she-kept-them-alive","She kept them alive",[10,631,632],{},"When Walter Sisulu was sentenced to life imprisonment alongside Nelson Mandela in 1964, the apartheid government believed they had removed the leaders. They had not accounted for the woman waiting at home.",[10,634,635,639],{},[31,636,638],{"href":637},"/women/albertina-sisulu","Albertina Sisulu"," raised five children and three adopted ones while her husband spent 26 years on Robben Island. She did this under banning orders that restricted where she could go and who she could speak to. She did this while being arrested, again and again, sometimes simply for stepping outside her restricted area to attend to patients as a nurse.",[10,641,642],{},"She co-founded the United Democratic Front. She became one of the most important voices of resistance during apartheid's darkest years. She was elected to Parliament in the country's first free election in 1994.",[10,644,645],{},"And through all of it, every single day, she was a mother. Not as a footnote. As the foundation.",[10,647,648,649],{},"Walter Sisulu said of her: ",[450,650,651],{},"\"She kept us alive.\"",[10,653,654],{},"He meant the family. He also meant the movement.",[20,656,658],{"id":657},"mama-winnie","Mama Winnie",[10,660,661,663],{},[31,662,534],{"href":533}," was 26 years old when her husband was taken to prison. She was left with two small daughters and a government that wanted her broken.",[10,665,666],{},"They banned her. They imprisoned her. They put her in solitary confinement. They sent her to a town where nobody spoke her language. And still, she did not disappear.",[10,668,669],{},"She raised her daughters. She organised her community. She turned her place of banishment into a clinic and a crèche. She became the face of resistance inside a country where every other leader was locked away or in exile.",[10,671,672,673,675],{},"Millions of South Africans called her ",[450,674,658],{},". Not because she was soft. Because she was there. She stayed when staying was the most dangerous thing a person could do, and she mothered a nation that needed someone to hold it together when everything was falling apart.",[20,677,679],{"id":678},"she-rewrote-it","She rewrote it",[10,681,682,686],{},[31,683,685],{"href":684},"/women/buchi-emecheta","Buchi Emecheta"," arrived in London from Lagos in the early 1960s with small children, no money, and a marriage that was coming undone.",[10,688,689],{},"She had been writing. Late at night, after the children were asleep, she was putting words on paper. When her husband found the manuscript, he burned it.",[10,691,692],{},"She rewrote it.",[10,694,695],{},"He burned it again.",[10,697,698],{},"She rewrote it again.",[10,700,701],{},"She eventually left the marriage and raised five children alone in a city that did not make it easy to be Black, female, Nigerian, and poor. She worked. She studied. She earned a degree. And she kept writing, always after the children were in bed, always with whatever time was left.",[10,703,704,705,708,709,708,712,715],{},"She wrote eighteen novels. She was honoured with an OBE. ",[450,706,707],{},"The Joys of Motherhood",", ",[450,710,711],{},"Second Class Citizen",[450,713,714],{},"Destination Biafra",". Books now taught in universities around the world, written at kitchen tables, in small hours, by a woman who had every reason to stop and never did.",[10,717,718],{},"When someone asks what it costs to tell the truth, Buchi Emecheta is the answer: everything, twice, and then you write it again.",[20,720,722],{"id":721},"nine-children-and-two-books-that-changed-everything","Nine children and two books that changed everything",[10,724,725,729],{},[31,726,728],{"href":727},"/women/mariama-ba","Mariama Bâ"," was a schoolteacher in Senegal. She was divorced. She was raising nine children alone.",[10,731,732,733,736],{},"She wrote a novel. She called it ",[450,734,735],{},"So Long a Letter",". It is written as a letter from one woman to another, and it tells the truth about what polygamy does to a woman's life, not as a political argument but as a lived experience, rendered with the quiet devastation of someone who knows because she lived it.",[10,738,739],{},"It won the first ever Noma Award for African literature. It changed West African writing permanently. It is still read in schools and universities across the world.",[10,741,742,743,746],{},"She wrote a second novel, ",[450,744,745],{},"Scarlet Song",", published shortly before her death in 1981. She was 52 years old.",[10,748,749],{},"Two books. Nine children. A life that was far too short, and a legacy that will outlast most writers who had decades more and carried far less.",[10,751,752],{},"Sometimes the measure of what a mother gives is not in what she had but in what she made from what was left.",[20,754,756],{"id":755},"the-mother-who-raised-a-revolution","The mother who raised a revolution",[10,758,759,761],{},[31,760,39],{"href":38}," led a mass women's movement that forced out a king, abolished colonial taxation in Abeokuta, and changed how Nigerian women saw their own power. She was the first Nigerian woman to vote. She represented her country at international conferences around the world. She received the Lenin Peace Prize.",[10,763,764],{},"She was also a mother.",[10,766,767],{},"Her son, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, became one of the most important musicians Africa has ever produced. His politics, his defiance, his absolute refusal to be quiet. None of it came from nowhere. He grew up watching his mother organise 100,000 women to demand their rights. He watched her stare down colonial authorities and win. He watched her refuse to accept anything less than justice.",[10,769,770],{},"Everything Fela became started in that house, with that mother.",[10,772,773],{},"In 1977, Nigerian soldiers raided Fela's compound. They threw Funmilayo from an upstairs window. She never recovered. She died the following year, at 77.",[10,775,776],{},"She gave Nigeria one of its greatest voices. She gave African women a blueprint for political organising that is still used today. And she gave everything she had, including, in the end, her life.",[20,778,780],{"id":779},"the-ones-we-call-mother","The ones we call \"Mother\"",[10,782,783],{},"It says something that so many of the women on this website have earned the title \"Mother\" from the people they served. Not because they bore children, though some did, but because they gave something only mothers give: a beginning. A first step. A door that had never been opened before, held open for everyone who came after.",[10,785,786,790,791,794],{},[31,787,789],{"href":788},"/women/charlotte-maxeke","Charlotte Maxeke",", the first Black South African woman to earn a university degree, is called the ",[165,792,793],{},"\"Mother of Black Freedom in South Africa.\""," She founded the Bantu Women's League, fought pass laws, and spent her life building foundations that others would stand on long after she was gone.",[10,796,797,801,802,805],{},[31,798,800],{"href":799},"/women/flora-nwapa","Flora Nwapa",", the first African woman to publish a novel through a major international publisher, is called the ",[165,803,804],{},"\"Mother of Modern African Literature.\""," She didn't just write the first book. She founded her own publishing house so that other African women could write theirs.",[10,807,808],{},"They were called \"Mother\" because the word means more than biology. It means: she made something possible that did not exist before her.",[20,810,812],{"id":811},"what-she-planted","What she planted",[10,814,815,819],{},[31,816,818],{"href":817},"/women/wangari-maathai","Wangari Maathai"," planted seven trees in her backyard in 1977. By the time she died, her Green Belt Movement had planted over 51 million trees across Africa and won her the Nobel Peace Prize.",[10,821,822],{},"She was also a mother. Her daughter, Wanjira Mathai, continues the environmental work today.",[10,824,825],{},"There is something in that image. A mother planting trees she may never sit under, for a world her daughter will inherit. That captures what so many of the women on this website gave. They built for the next generation. They fought so that their children, and everyone else's children, would have more than they did.",[10,827,828],{},"That is what mothers do. Not always loudly. Not always with recognition. But always forward.",[20,830,832],{"id":831},"to-them-and-to-you","To them, and to you",[10,834,835],{},"The women in this article did extraordinary things. But if you are a mother reading this, you already know the weight they carried. You know what it is to give more than you have. You know what it means to be tired in a way that sleep does not fix and to get up the next morning anyway because someone is depending on you.",[10,837,838],{},"Maybe you wrote no novels. Maybe you led no marches. But you showed up. You made a way where there wasn't one. You turned nothing into something so many times that your children grew up thinking that's just how the world works, not realising it only worked because you made it work.",[10,840,841],{},"That is not a small thing. That is the biggest thing there is.",[10,843,844],{},"So this is for Albertina and Buchi and Mariama and Funmilayo and Winnie and Charlotte and Flora and Wangari. But it is also for your mother. And my mother. And for every mother reading this who has never once been thanked the way she deserves.",[10,846,847],{},"Thank you.",[10,849,850],{},"For the meals that appeared like magic. For the school fees you found when there was no money. For the prayers you whispered when you thought nobody was listening. For the times you were afraid and never let it show. For all the things you gave up that we will never know about because you never told us.",[10,852,853],{},"You gave us everything. We are still living on it.",[10,855,856],{},"Happy Mothering Sunday.",[20,858,100],{"id":99},[102,860,861,864,867,870,873,876,879,882],{},[105,862,863],{},"Albertina Sisulu raised eight children while her husband was imprisoned for 26 years, and still became one of the most important leaders of the anti-apartheid movement. Walter Sisulu said of her: \"She kept us alive.\"",[105,865,866],{},"Buchi Emecheta wrote eighteen novels while raising five children alone in London, after her husband burned her manuscripts. Twice.",[105,868,869],{},"Mariama Bâ raised nine children as a single mother and wrote two books that changed West African literature. She died at 52.",[105,871,872],{},"Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti raised Fela Kuti while leading Nigeria's most powerful women's political movement. She gave everything, including her life.",[105,874,875],{},"Charlotte Maxeke and Flora Nwapa are called \"Mother\" of Black freedom and African literature because they opened doors no one had opened before and held them open for others.",[105,877,878],{},"Wangari Maathai planted trees for a future her daughter now carries forward.",[105,880,881],{},"Motherhood in Africa has never been small and has never been separate from the story of resistance, creativity, and change. It has always been at the centre.",[105,883,884],{},"The mothers in the history books and the mothers in our homes are carrying the same weight. Both deserve to be seen, thanked, and honoured.",{"title":124,"searchDepth":125,"depth":125,"links":886},[887,888,889,890,891,892,893,894,895],{"id":628,"depth":125,"text":629},{"id":657,"depth":125,"text":658},{"id":678,"depth":125,"text":679},{"id":721,"depth":125,"text":722},{"id":755,"depth":125,"text":756},{"id":779,"depth":125,"text":780},{"id":811,"depth":125,"text":812},{"id":831,"depth":125,"text":832},{"id":99,"depth":125,"text":100},"2026-03-15","A Mothering Sunday reflection on the African women who carried movements, raised revolutions, and wrote the truth, all while raising children who would inherit their courage.","/articles/to-the-mothers-who-gave-us-everything.jpg","Annie Spratt / Unsplash",{},"/articles/to-the-mothers-who-gave-us-everything",{"title":614,"description":897},"A Mothering Sunday tribute to African women like Albertina Sisulu who raised children while carrying movements, and to mothers no archive will ever name.","To the African Mothers Who Carried Movements","to-the-mothers-who-gave-us-everything","articles/to-the-mothers-who-gave-us-everything","_iE1oKq7IAXJU8Z_DWAI64F3RD58iEH20FuZ_3KRouc",[],1789043693436]